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Why Guys Have Trouble With Conversations

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When in it comes to relationships, one of the areas many guys fall short in is conversation. Here's the problem: In the workplace most men use three primary tools to communicate - the fact-giving tool, the fact-finding tool and the take-charge tool. While these are effective tools in that setting, they are not particularly helpful for building relationships. We will look at the communication tools that can help make you a success when it comes to your relationships, but first let's take a look at the three communication tools found in most men's internal toolboxes and examine their weaknesses when it comes to personal relationshps. Let's start with the fact-giving tool, the one most of us guys seem to specialize in using when it comes to our relationships. THE FACT-GIVING TOOL The fact-giving tool is the ability to communicate the facts and nothing but the facts. This is a wonderful tool in the workplace when dialogue must be succinct and efficient...